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My 11 year old daughter is eating junk food behind my back and hiding it. When I confront her she first lies about it than she cries and usually runs away. She claims it is because she hates her self for doing it in the first place. But she still doesn’t know why she does it. She fat shames herself and I don’t know how to help her accept herself and get her to stop. She also avoids places that she knows make her happy despite her joy when doing them. She doesn’t have friends that she thinks she can “truly trust” and I think she is embarrassed to tell me. I have taken her to a therapist but she hated it and she said she didn’t want false sympathy. I don’t know what to do or how to help her. Any advice? Please.

March 25, 2018 by Leave a Comment

So sorry to hear your daughter is struggling. I am not a mental health professional but it sounds like it was a good idea to try to connect your daughter to a therapist regarding the issues you shared and sorry it was not helpful.

I know that for many families it sometimes takes trying a few different therapists before they find someone who is able to connect with and help their children. I don’t know if that is an option for your family or in your community but if it is it may be worth a try. If you need assistance figuring out how to connect to or find another therapist please feel free to contact us again.

The National Eating Disorders Association is a great organization that has a lot of information about kids who struggle with different issues related to eating, food and body image. You can find them online at: https://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org. They also have a  Helpline available Monday-Thursday from 9AM to 9PM ET, and Friday from 9AM to 5PM ET. You can contact the Helpline for support and resources by calling (800) 931-2237. They also have a Click-to-Chat option where you can speak with a live, trained Helpline volunteer by instant messaging if you prefer. For crisis situations you can text “NEDA” to 741741 to be connected with a trained volunteer at Crisis Text Line.

Please be sure to let me know if you are not able to access the information you need or if you would like additional assistance or support.  I will post your question on your website as you requested in case other families have advice you can use. Good luck to you and your daughter!

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  • About
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    • Understanding my Child’s Mental Health Challenges
    • Collaborating with the Professionals Working with My Family
    • Navigating
      • Problems at School
      • Navigating the Juvenile Justice System
      • Navigating the Child Welfare System
      • The Mental Health System
    • Finding Resources for Housing, Employment, Childcare, Healthcare and Other Family Supports such as SSI/SSDI
      • Housing
      • Employment
      • Childcare
      • Free or Low Cost Medications
      • Health Care Coverage
    • Military Family Support
    • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Get Information
    • Children’s Mental Health 101
      • I Am Worried About My Child’s Mental Health
      • Possible Red Flags
      • Who can help
      • How to Access Mental Health Services and Supports
      • I Just Found Out My Child Has a Mental Health Disorder
      • Common Diagnosis
      • Treatments & Supports
      • Questions to Ask About Treatment
      • How to be Actively Involved in Your Child’s Treatment
      • What to Expect
      • When Accessing Mental Health Services Using Public Mental Health
      • When Accessing Mental Health Services Using Private Insurance
      • What to Expect if Your Child is in Crisis
      • Mental Health by Age & Stage
      • Additional Children’s Mental Health Resources
    • Ask the Expert
    • ACMH Projects
      • Parent Support Partner
      • Youth Peer Support
      • Family Action Partnership
      • Statewide Family Network
      • Other Projects & Collaborations
    • For Community Agencies
    • Child and Family Services
      • Public Mental Health
      • Juvenile Justice
      • Child Welfare
      • Education
    • Training Opportunities & Calendar
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